Combined, the points below will describe a guy who's really, really inhibited and awkward around women.Not all shy men will have issues that intense or have every characteristic apply to them.I'll list some quick suggestions at the end, but for the most part I'll describe the issues shy guys deal with and let you draw your own conclusions about how to act.As with all the other writing on this site, the points here are from a mix of my own experience and accounts I've come across of how shy guys say they think.There is an art to dating introverted men, though, and this article will help you decide if this personality type is your best match.The good news is that you don't need to be an introvert to date one.So don't get offended if he refuses to be chatty at all times.
At the end I give a few thoughts on what to do if there's a shy guy in your life you're interested in.
If you are crushing on a shy guy, I definitely recommend that you read The Rules, by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider.
My advice will make a lot more sense if you're already familiar with the basic concept of letting a man lead and set the pace of the relationship.
Regardless of personality type, men are happiest when allowed to discover love at their own pace.
A common misconception in the dating world is that the guy always has to approach the girl to make the first move.
You'll be pursuing him, so your energy will shift from being feminine to masculine, and that's not healthy or sexy (for you or for him) in the long run.