So if you can’t fly solo (which is my recommendation) agree with your friend that you’re going to split up for a good chunk of the party to see who else you two can meet. Looking like you’re going into a boardroom instead of a club — Keep in mind that men are visually stimulated.If you present yourself at a mixer like you’re about to give a Power Point presentation, that’s not a turn on.On the appropriate night, you drive to a local venue, perhaps a coffee shop, pay the very reasonable fee (much cheaper than popcorn and a movie for two), and then tell the organizer your age range, which might be 20-29, 30-39, or 40 and up.Each age range is awarded a specific time block in the evening in which to mingle with the opposite sex.You can talk to your girlfriends anywhere, but you’re at a mixer to meet men.Even a quarterback would be intimidated to break through that defensive line.
It stems from biological instincts — female primates such as baboons go red in the face when they are fertile.
Recently, I had the pleasure of attending a few Stir events.
I spoke with many women and men about what they were looking for, what annoyed them and what was going through their heads when they came into a room full of people they didn’t know.
Men’s favourite hairstyle is, apparently, long and worn down.
Although fringes might be in fashion, men find them a turn-off. ‘It suggests you’re demanding and are overly concerned with your appearance,’ says Kate.
I had no idea how speed dating worked; before, during and after, but I do now… I started anxiously Googling “speed dating attire”, “what to wear to speed dating” etc.