He thinks that pictures of penises will leave women frothing at the gash, but he couldn’t be more wrong.
In particular, it’s the thought that the woman was involved in that penis’s arousal that turns them on.
Put simply, if an online suitor can send an image of a disembodied penis to someone they don’t have to face, they are much more likely to do so than, for example, exposing themselves in public with all the social and legal consequences that might bring.
But this doesn’t explain the underlying motivations to send such images on a dating site.
You wouldn’t call sushi a “filthy” food just because most sushi is sold at the grocery or gasoline store, would you?
Well, dick pics are similar, and they only get a bad rap because of the grocery-store kind.
If you’re feeling brave (warning: graphic content), then take a look at Bye Felipe or visit Anna Gensler’s Instagram account for her artistic approach to dealing with the deluge of sexual suggestions and images she receives.
Indeed, unsolicited “dick pics” have become such a problem on online dating services that one site, Ok Cupid, actually removed the capability to send images.
First you have to find someone with whom you share a mutual attraction, then you have to make sure that you want the same thing in terms of commitment. As a result, many have turned to online dating sites. As the saying goes: “Men are afraid women will laugh at them.Sherrie Hewson, a TV presenter in the UK, recently revealed that after signing up for an online dating website she received an unexpected and unsolicited full-frontal image of her correspondent’s genitals.It’s something many women have experienced online and, although Hewson tried to make light of it she was left feeling shocked, and quit the site.In total, I received 11 messages with 218 visitors. A few were a little more forward, and two were straight-up aggressive.Despite Casual Kiss being kind of scammy, with only 3000 monthly visitors, I decided to give it a try all the same – and I wasn’t entirely disappointed.
Every photo uploaded to the website is pushed through a filter that detects both face and nudity.