It has been a lot of fun coming up with anything that I can do to surprise my wife on our random dates.If you are like me, you may have discovered that there may be a few dating ideas here and there on the web, but I got to thinking about how this concept could be a lot more effective if others posted ideas on a site.I entered full-time ministry at a time when it was still fairly acceptable for a church to admit they wanted a married person (usually a man) to be a pastor at their church.I can’t imagine being interviewed for a job as a lawyer or mechanic and having the employer(s) ask about my dating life, but churches were doing this all the time.Being single in ministry—technically I’ve been there. It was for only a year and all but 4 days of that year I was engaged.Some in the church where I was working were quite happy about that frankly. Unfortunately, it can be even more challenging when you’re in vocational ministry.
In fact, for years there were those who would give “good reasons” as to why this is acceptable.
Allow me to give you a sketch of why there are Christians who feel this way: In all fairness, the churches I have had the privilege of working with, including those visited, have largely been those who do not hold to these lines of reasoning.
Things have change dramatically even over the last decade.
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But, it wasn’t until my second year of pastoring that I became aware of my loneliness. While sitting in the second chair shielded me from the full burden of the weight of ministry, I still shouldered a great share of the responsibility.