The Tswana are closely related to the Sotho (of Lesotho and South Africa).
The Sotho-Tswana are bonded in language and customs. They share an agrarian culture, social structures, political organization, religious and magical beliefs and also a family life.
Game animals abounded, the grass was excellent for cattle, there were no serious endemic livestock diseases and the soil was deep and easy to cultivate.
They can find people easily that share their interests and hook up.
It is a pretty simple process, and one that has been successful repeatedly for hundreds of people.
Her chance for happiness hinges on a future that is highly uncertain, to say the least.
Your own survival is crucial, and if you do happen to fall in love with a married man, there are several hard truths you need to know. The needs of the many (namely, his family) will always outweigh your needs.
The woman who is in love with a married man lives a life that, for the most part, is shrouded in secrecy.