It is not whether or not you are in a romantic relationship, but if you have a relationship with others that makes the difference between enjoyable living and misery. To do so is to step outside of God’s plan and try to make it on your own.At best you might find enjoyment for a moment, but without relating to others you will soon grow inward and isolated from both people and reality.He wrote, “Lovers are normally face to face, absorbed in each other; friends, side by side, absorbed in some common interest.” In order to become absorbed in one another; the couple must first walk side by side with one another.We see this in the very beginnings when God made Eve from Adam’s rib showing that they are equal or friends.We see that God did not forget this step as the people He entered into covenants with were His friends. Abraham’s friendship with God allowed him to grow in trust of God and eventually become the Father of all of God’s people.
So is it true that free sites offering a free service attract people who are scammers, fraudsters, Russian 'mail order brides' and all types of deceptive and unstable people as apposed to a paying site?
Many free dating and friendship web sites may not really be interested in you actually 'Finding Someone Genuine', policing their web site, or offering you an efficient customer care service like New Friends4as their focus is more on you clicking web site advertising, collecting your email address or selling your information.
Pastor Jim provides advice for Christian singles, stating that finding a ‘true, cherished, valuable friend’ is very important even before searching for a romantic relationship.
Build Christian friendships that are ‘mutually rewarding, and then move to romance.’ It’s Not Being Single but Alone Being single as an adult is not the challenge, it is being alone that breaks us. Our systems were not engineered to isolate and take life alone.