And if you haven’t had that happen, by understanding & applying my “Reversing Strategy” you’ll see it start happening for you!Even if you’ve had that happen in the past, you may not know WHY it happened, and thus you were unable to re-produce the same event.You berate yourself for disclosing your fascination with sea urchins, for ordering noodle soup and making slurping noises, or for joking about how you got the scar on your middle finger.
f you’ve ever had someone you’re attracted to give you the cold shoulder, only to turn around at a later date and BEG to be your willing love slave, you’ll know what I’m talking about today.“That which does not kill us makes us Stronger.” Sometimes when I hear this phrase I want to slap that German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche upside his head!He obviously had never suffered the desperation and feeling of rejection that men endure when women decide the man is unworthy of her attentions.There are many reasons why women reject men, and it is definitely within their right to do so, however it is often the method or delivery of that rejection that can completely destroy the little bit of self-esteem that men possess when it comes to courting the fairer sex. Well, often it’s because they feel they can do better.Often it’s because the men do not have jobs that can keep them in a style they believe they deserve.
You must be, otherwise you wouldn’t hurt so much, right? Here’s why: Recent studies placed people in f MRI machines (scanners that look at what happens in our brains when we’re thinking or doing something) and asked them to think about a painful and recent rejection. The same pathways in the brain became activated when people experienced a rejection as when they experienced physical pain.