could someone please tell me the correct way to spell neccessarily? Just being with someone at the time was enough for me. I was divorced over 2 years ago, dated someone within a few months after we split up & when I got back into the dating scene, many women were asking stuff like "why separated? But I'm not a hermit so I chose to date other women, although I didn't sleep with any of them til I got my final decree.When was the last time you went on a date with someone? Because if it has been, then you need to learn the new rules to dating.Things change yearly with new technology, social standards, mannerisms and more.
My husband’s excuse for not being a good husband or partner is that his father didn’t treat his mom nice. Never touched me, even though I asked so many times and said how important that was to me. And then pinched a bit of my skin to show me that I have half an inch of fat on my belly. Last month I told my husband that our marriage stopped working for me. Let’s get to the part of your post that really struck a nerve with me.
So, the innocent one either walks away broken hearted, or they compromise and continue to see the person because they’re already too emotionally attached and invested. You didn’t join an online dating site because you were bored. You needed validation that you were desirable, that someone would want to love you the way you deserve to be loved. Because if you go into a candy store, chances are you will come out of it with a purchase, right? First of all, I am going to assume he isn’t married, but I don’t know that for sure. You are asking me if you should stay with your husband or be with this new guy, and my answer is, your decision shouldn’t be based on whether or not you have a boyfriend. You either want your marriage to work or you don’t think it can. This boyfriend guy shouldn’t be in the mix, only in the sense that he gave you a taste of the notion that it is possible to meet someone else at this stage in your life.
So, they rationalize and tell themselves whatever they need to tell themselves to make the other person seem like their soul mate, when in reality, the relationship started off with lies and deceit. You joined because you mentally checked out of your marriage (I can understand why, based on your email). If he is married, I’ve got all kinds of other issues. I think that men and women are on their best behavior and most infatuated at the beginning of a relationship—especially one where the time you spend together is so limited. I hope I wasn’t too hard on you, or that I sound judgmental.
yes, it hit me like been stoned in the face, and hurts. Invest some time and energy in your profile -- instead of looking like everyone else, make it a unique reflection of who YOU are, and maybe you'll start attracting a classier breed of men."Loop hiker...job in completely de-railing the thread, and going off topic. You should really try and be a little bit more sympathetic.
Come on Women, please, I am not a saint, I will never request myself to canonization under any trifle or technicality in Gods laws, actually... When one gets jilted, the MOST imortant thing is to spend time with someone who wants to be with them, can't you see that?
Most recently I have met two men who have had their wives leave them within one to four months and they 'thought' they were ready to move on, date, and start another relationship. WOW, Oh yes, I agree with you "Whereareallthemen", and I am adding to it, that this work in both ways... I am looking for someone who is honest, caring, sensitive...."Gag me.