Find out early if there are reasons that “making it work” will be fraught. Select a few of these questions rather than attempt to ask them all on the same first date! For example, if one person likes to take very long trips and the other person has a more standard two weeks vacation time. If asking this question leads to five solid minutes of them complaining you'll know the person sees the glass as half empty. Why: When you enter a relationship with someone you’re also entering a relationship with their friends. Why: If one of you doesn't like pets and the other has 3 dogs, that's likely to be a problem.
Also, if anything out of the ordinary has happened that might be affecting your date’s mood, it’s good to factor this in. Also, it’s nice to give your date an opportunity to answer a question that isn't directly about them.
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That a bunch of our breakthroughs, triumphs and joys occurred when we asked a few big, bold, paradigm-shifting questions? Such a statement suggests that I've given away my power without even bruising my knuckles.
Don't we owe it to ourselves—don't we deserve—to live an examined life? Never mind that we all, to some degree, worry about what people think, because we're, you know, human.
So I'll just give you the honest answer: Yes, I have often cared too much. Do You Think Dance With A Boy In A Nightclub Is Cheating? Give Me The Names Of 3 Objects Or Things You Love Most And Why? Do You Consider Yourself A Happy Person Because Youve Met Me? ) And remember how good that felt—to find the world so fascinating that you had to learn, this second and in great detail, exactly how it worked?Have we established that questions are marvelous, momentous things?
Why: Are they very involved with their family of origin?