They have tremendous charisma by which many are drawn into their nurturant tutelage and/or grand schemes. Some can juggle an amazing number of responsibilities or projects simultaneously.
Many ENFJs have tremendous power to manipulate others with their phenomenal interpersonal skills and unique salesmanship. Many ENFJs have tremendous entrepreneurial ability. ENFJs are, by definition, Js, with whom we associate organization and decisiveness.
They also (although most probably aren't conscious of this) really need to be validated.
They want to help you (truly) but they also want to know that you see and appreciate their help.
So much has been written about whether opposites attract or difference is the key but in real life it is all about understanding the differences, accommodating and managing them.
This section will help you see where the potential for conflict exists between personality types and help you manage it.
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Regardless of the number of similarities and differences, each personality combination will have its unique set of challenges.
We will look at each of the 4 preferences individually: This is a summary of the joys and pains of the ENTP-ENFJ relationship.
ENFJs often take on more of the burdens of others than they can bear. One ENFJ colleague always welcomes me into his office regardless of his own circumstances.
If another person comes to the door, he allows them to interrupt our conversation with their need.
Their offices may or may not be cluttered, but their conclusions (reached through feelings) about people and motives are drawn much more quickly and are more resilient than those of their NFP counterparts. Like most NFs, (and Feelers in general), they are apt to neglect themselves and their own needs for the needs of others.