Well, I never really thought I would write this blog. I decided to cool down and wait 24 hours before I blurted it all out here. So, for starters, I have had two of the most amazing men in my life and two wonderful long term relationships in my life; I count myself super grateful and blessed.
Been doing the online dating thing for about 3 months now. I loved these men to pieces and they loved me back. ) “You’re sure are picky for a fat woman.” You bet your ass I am! I would MUCH rather be alone and lonely then with some dickhead and lonely. I know you big girls like the big one’s” Whoa, there stud.
Body type shouldn’t be a dating dealbreaker — keep an open-mind and explore all your options.
But to all the curvy daters out there, we suggest giving the Asian man who viewed your profile a second look.
) I almost wrote it all and sent it out last night, but I decided I need to cool off first.
Truly amazing men who were great friends, fantastic supporters of mine and some of my best cheerleaders for all of my crazy business ideas. It seems that most mature men don’t seem to even care about my body type. Maybe because I am so straight forward on my ads so then only men who are feeling me, reply?
I'd love more kids, despite being nearly over the hill at ... 6'4 blue eyes I do need to lose weight, I put on a bit when I stopped smoking. I am divorced I like eating out, cinema, quiet country pubs, meeting people, doing suduko and playing 10 pin bowling. Body type is large Just so everybody is clear, I don't mind the odd compliment but coming straight at me saying "I love your pretty face" or "your totally georgeous stunning" is a massive turn off, now I've got over being big headed as if I get loads compliments all I have left to say is pizza.
Besides, the best revenge is living well and there’s nothing quite like seeing the underdog succeed despite all of his or her disadvantages. The cognitive dissonance Now, I’m going to be blunt: dating can suck when you’re fat.
We dug deeper to examine the ethnicities of women that self-identified as curvy and discovered that Asian men more often prefer curvy African-American women and curvy Caucasian women.
African-American men were also the most likely to reach out to curvy Asian and curvy Hispanic women, which supported what we previously learned about online daters tendencies to date outside their ethnic group.
And, for the most part, the online dating adventure has been exactly that. But, there have been a few interactions that have gone really really bad. As in “you fat bitch” and one that I reported to a friend of mine (who is a San Jose PD detective) that basically said I would be better off dead. Now, I am certain that this sort of thing happens to women of all sizes and shapes. Well, “you fat bitch” probably only happens to fat women. You can be a size 2 and get plenty of hate mail and comments. There are way too many amazing, uplifting people in the world to spend your days with those ass hats. And, if you find yourself being harassed online via email or message or texts, just keep replying with the words ” Please stop emailing me.” Or “Please stop texting me.” Be clear. And, when you get someone who is being rude via text or your cell phone – do NOT delete their telephone number from your phone.
It is so fascinating how one moment someone is basically begging me to go on a date with them and then the next minute, after I politely turn them down, that it turns so ugly. (“Eat a cheeseburger” memes come to mind.) When you are fat woman online, you get fun stuff like this: (And, I do believe in full disclosure. Just change the name in your contact to “Dick head. He made threats to me” or something like that so you have their telephone number and you NEVER mistakenly answer their call.
Additionally, African-American men were 52% more likely and Hispanic men were 28% more likely respectively than Caucasian men to give attention to curvy women online.