Date the less-than-dapper dude who might not be the best arm candy.Quite frankly, that applies to being in the relationship iself, too. Maybe it means you have to deal with his neat-freak tendencies, or perhaps you earn more than he does.Dating in your late 30s (especially if you are dating after divorce with kids like me) is sort of like sifting through a garbage can, hoping to find a huge diamond and a pair of Manolo Blahniks.I don't mean to say that every available man is worthless when you're in your late 30s but rather that the game is hard, and guess what, ladies: it's still a game, even at our age.
You could be "Fertile Myrtle" and they might not know it simply because you're over 35 and they didn't bother to ask because you didn't fit the criteria. Waiting for everything to "fall into place."It can't. Stop thinking that when you finally get a promotion, Mr. Go against the grain; it might end up feeling right.2. More than 30 percent don’t even know where to begin and nearly 30 percent say they find it too stressful (think back to those sweaty palms and awkward conversations.) For more than 40 percent of respondents, other priorities are simply more important, and nearly one-quarter say it’s just too difficult to date when you’re 50-plus. That’s true whether you’re 16 or 56, but more than 40 percent don’t believe there is anyone “out there” to date.
Anyone looking to play games should move on to someone more gullible.10. She's spent time honing her skills, and on dates, she'll impress you with her ability to whip up a perfect flourless chocolate cake, scout out a bar with the best mojitos, or dance like Beyoncé.14. She knows what works for her body and has developed her own personal style. The friends she has now will probably be around forever, so anyone dating her should get on their good side.