Sometimes I don’t want to chat with someone who only has a theoretical understanding of gender oppression.
Sometimes I want to talk to someone who just gets it.
It’s more important to date someone who shares your same beliefs and values, than your skin color.
Sometimes it may seem like everything is working against you just to make relationships even more difficult. If you only knew what people went through in their own lives, you’d see how challenging all relationships can be.
It takes a lot of focus and commitment to make one last.
and know just how much starch to add to your laundry …
In case you aren’t hip on your semi-offensive urban speak, a Twinkie is an Asian who acts white—that is, yellow on the outside, but white on the inside.
While it’s okay for conversations about white supremacy to make you uncomfortable (hey, we should be uncomfortable with that shit), being generally aware of how race plays out and feeling fairly well versed in Being honest about the ways in which race is complex – both inside and outside of your relationship – shows a willingness to engage with a part of your partner’s identity and experience in a way that really holds them.