I get so many emails asking me about whether to date someone who is separated, recently divorced, or even fresh out of a breakup that I wanted to tackle this tricky subject.
The best way to help him to heal is to enjoy your time together.
This is not the position you want to find yourself in during the relationship, as it will not only cause you a lot of frustration, but it will frustrate your partner as well.
Nor should you feel, in a manner, that you are being compared to his ex-wife, nor should you try to emulate her. He is interested in you for who you are, not who you can become - least of all his ex. Try not to get into lengthy conversations about the relationship he had with his ex.
Have you been wondering how to date a divorce (male), and have a successful relationship?
Getting into a relationship with a divorced man is a bit of a package deal with a lot of complications. There is always some degree of emotional fallout, there are his children if he has any, who will be a big part of his life, and like it or not, so will his ex-wife.
This is a very good book if you are in a not so great situation.